About me….

This is the area of the blog where I’m asked to reveal a little of myself. So here goes…..

I’m a Buckinghamshire girl –  Buckinghamshire being one of England’s Home Counties just north of London. I was born in Reading but my family moved to the small Buckinghamshire village of ‘Whiteleaf’ when I was 5 years old. An idyllic part of the world which was leafy, sleepy and very much untouched. As an outdoor child, who would spend all day in the woods with the dog, it was a fabulous place to grow up.

I was schooled in the tiny village school which encouraged my creativity to flourish and to some extent my brain too. I loved my time there, and along with the other village children, have wonderful memories. Onwards and upwards! Sir Henry Floyd in Aylesbury was to be my secondary school of choice. I had many happy hours there too, although applying myself and homework were never my strong points. Making friends was though, and this is where I met my life long friend.

Aylesbury became the geographical hub of my life and I soon found work there, disastrously bought a house or two, and settled into that routine which inevitably sucks us all in.

I’m skipping through the years here, as there are a lot of them. I loved and lost, bought and sold, slobbed out and got fit, and also gradually made it up the management chain at work. I’m not sure how all this happened but before I knew it I was teetering on the edge of such a large corporate hole that I thought I may fall in, never to return. An opportunity came my way in 2004 and so I left my career of 20 years and went travelling.

I had just under a year of adventure. It spanned from Antananarivo to Uluru (I couldn’t think of anything beginning with v, w,x,y or z). Some travel was with a partner, some with a tour group and some on my own. It was a life changing experience and eventually led to my life changing.

With a heavy heart and clipped wings I returned to work. I achieved seven years of further experience and ladder climbing until once again I found myself looking deeply into that same corporate hole. After much internal wrangling and fear facing I took the plunge into the unknown. I left the world of Financial Services and steady income to find out what my life was really supposed to be about. That was in September 2012.

For now, and after clocking up many miles, countries, and cultures, I find myself living in Chiang Mai. I’m no longer the adventurous backpacker who craves constant change and the thrill of all things new. I am settled and content. I now crave peace, stillness, simplicity of living and creative moments. I’m happy in the knowledge that my day belongs to me and I can fill it however I choose. This is more luxury than I have ever experienced.

Chiang Mai is a wonderfully diverse city. You can do as much or as little as you wish. For me it has been a place where I feel I fit in. It’s given me the chance to think about the person I am and the life I should live. There are so many amazing tiny details just waiting to be discovered here, and my latest photo blog is helping open my eyes to them, and share them with you.

I hope you enjoy the trip!



3 thoughts on “About me….

  1. I love this my friend. So glad I shared in some of your journey and cannot wait until we meet again. I am so very proud of you for being you, finding happiness, inner peace, and your “why” in life. I too hope to be on my own journey with the twins in the near future, but until then, love to you Lulu. Keep dancing, smiling, and enjoying life. . . .the world is your oyster!!! Mumpichu xoxox


  2. How did you come to decide on Chiang Mai in which to settle? I randomly did a ‘virtual’ drive around a randomly chosen residential district (courtesy of Google) and it looks lovely, totally idyllic. Sunny houses, all different styles and ages, with lots of little shops and stalls.
    I’m on the Stoke Mandeville / Aylesbury border and do enjoy escaping into the Buckinghamshire countryside, but I fear the more of your blog I read the more envious I might become. You seem to have found a lovely lifestyle.



    1. Morning James! It’s taken me a while to track down how to reply – I realise now that you’ve been looking at my old blog site. 🙂 I’m now located at http://www.blog.dejalulu.com/ As they say in Thailand it’s the ‘same same but different’! I think Chiang Mai chose me. I left the UK with very little expectations – i guess just that there had to be more to life than this! There are pros and cons to every situation but youre right it’s a random mix of delightful. There’s a certain calm here too but maybe thats just because I’ve left the rat race. I really enjoyed living in Buckinghamshire I just didnt like the lifestyle I felt I had to live in order to sustain some financial independence. It’s hard to beat fine English days walking through the beech woods of the Chilterns high up on Coombe Hill, or a stroll along the canal with a leisurely stop for a pub lunch and a pint of cider 🙂 You sound like you know how to live though 🙂


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